This one woman has the super power human strength of ruining someone’s whole dating life forever. Yes indeed it is true. Apparently this woman is such an evil woman that many, many  years ago she ruined some poor souls life in such a way that this person will never be able to date again. I know this is hard to gulp down, because after all how can one woman do such harm to a man who spends his days sleeping around and smoothing over every female he speaks to?

I really do hope this woman realizes the super human strength she holds in her hands and heart to be able to destroy a person and make them evil for life. You see, if this woman did indeed “ruin” this man well then maybe, just maybe he should have or should now seek counseling services to get his brain and heart straight? That’s just my two cents.

I get that a man and a woman may fall head over heels in love so hard that when the poor couple ends up breaking up that the heart can feel lost for a long time and that indeed this man may feel like this woman ripped his heart out of his chest but at some point one would think both would move on, either with our without professional help.

I am a firm believer that no one person can completely destroy another person in such a devastating way that many years down the road he is still blaming this woman for his demise in relationships. The only way one can make another person feel or be ‘destroyed’ is if they allow that person to make them feel that way or they are due full of ego to realize they have issues that need addressing.

Now I am not sure if we can call this man’s attitude towards a woman a result of pride, as from what I can tell it seems to be he has extremely deep issues and must find the nearest route to a counselor or pyschiatrist and fast. Curious how many of his ‘beaus’ fall for this excuse, I personally would eitehr 1) laugh in this mans face or 2) tell him to go seek professional help so he can move on to lead a successful, happier life.

yes this is a sarcastic fictional article derived from my brain … enjoy!

I know you all have them, those dating deal breakers. If you are a single person out in the dating world you have a list of specific things that are quite simply put … deal breakers.

A deal break is something that is not acceptable to you, something that no matter how awesome this person is, the fact that they exhibit this quality or characteristic you will not be able to continue dating them.

I have a few deal breakers and here are the most important ones for me:

• Doesn’t have their own child or children {never works for me ever}
• Aggressive or overly jealous, often wondering who or what you are doing. {no way dude}
• Wants more children. { I am thinking three is plenty for me }
• Insecure. {need I say more?}
• Believes in trusting a person when they prove that they can be trusted instead of trusting a person until they give you a reason not to be trusted. {buh-bye man}

To some those may not seem like big deals and out of my list above I would say the whole having more children idea may not be a 100% deal breaker but honestly I wanted to get fixed after my last born for a reason, I hate being pregnant. If I was an awesome pregnant person who was sweet as sweet could be 90% of the time I would totally be up to have a huge family OR if I knew 150% that I was guaranteed to be with this person for the rest of my life & never have to share my child in separate homes, then maybe just maybe that option wouldn’t be considered a deal breaker. Let’s be honest though, as it stands it can be a huge deal breaker for this chick.

So … do you have those deal breakers that are simply NO WAY DUDE when it comes to dating? I know you all have them, even if you are no longer dating I bet you had some back in the days of dating, I am curious, I want to hear them! Leave comment below!

Sometimes you may wonder “what if” this moment happened in my previous relationship … would I have fallen back in love? I say no but one fictional woman did .. and here is the story:

He came home from a long day at work and dinner was warm, ready waiting for him on the table. The man wasn’t interested in the dinner laying on his plate, what the man was interested in was his hot woman with a smile on her face, apron on, ready to serve him. The man wanted his woman to serve him all right, to serve him with something a bit more steamy than what laid on that plate over on the kitchen table.

The woman wasn’t expecting what happened next, her man came up to her grabbed a hold of her and with his arms wrapped around her laid a big passionate kiss upon her lips. The woman squirmed a little, for she was shocked at how different her man was acting. Although a smile crossed her face, her heart was racing and her body tingling wondering what her man had in store for her next.

The man turned his woman around and led her to the bedroom where he continued to kiss her but this time on her neck, he kissed her slowly on her neck as her voice moaned from the sheer pleasure of his lips touching her skin. They fall upon the bed and start touching each other passionately, hands roaming, minds wandering and the excitement was so intense that they just had to have each other.

The man slowly worked off his woman’s clothes, they entwined their bodies and they enjoyed a long passionate night of love making.  When the woman woke up the next morning she found a sweet love note beside the bed saying:

Thanks for the great night, I am off to work but today I will miss you and I can not wait to return home to kiss your sweet lips. Love always, your man

This was the day that love and passion was brought back into the house and that was the night that she fell in love with her man all over again.

How frustrating is the dating scene for others? For me, it’s a nightmare sometimes. It seems all men are physically attracted to me and feel it’s love at first site. I try to explain to them they are simply thinking with their “other head” and I’m sure you know what I mean but they are convinced we are meant to be and in love. I will admit there is one or two people I have feelings for in a way that I wonder what the future holds, if I am meant to be with one of them or not, but I don’t feel in love with either of them like that.

I don’t understand why men think they have to tell a woman they love them to try to get them in bed?! I would prefer if someone wanted to try to sleep with me that they be honest and upfront. I am a big girl and I can handle my self and handle the honesty. I will admit there have been a couple of guys I have talked to that are straight up about wanting “no strings attached” and they are good friends of mine but I won’t sleep with them.

Here’s the deal; growing up I always looked to men for sex to feel loved or whatever I needed back years and years ago. I got my need to sleep with people stage out of my system. I am now a happy, single mother of three who always puts her children and business first. That is what my life revolves around at this time; children and business. I don’t have time to play games, I barely have time for dinner dates and I quite simply just don’t need the smooth talking jerks to come into my life and waste any of my time or theirs.

Dating is fun, it’s great getting to talk to a ton of new people and with text messages it’s even easier to get to know someone virtually before ever meeting for a dinner date. Text messages have saved me from meeting a lot of dumb men since I’ve been back on the dating bandwagon! As much as I feel texts or even emails can be very impersonal I love that they have opened the doors to getting to know someone a little bit better before spending hours upon hours on the phone away from my busy life just to find out they are complete jerks!

Dating can just plain suck, especially when you do not need anyone else in your life but simply want companionship, someone to cuddle up with to watch a movie every other weekend when the munchkins are gone. That my friends is exactly what I need a good friend that I can snuggle up to watching a movie on the couch, trust with me when I have a few beers and someone who I can call if having a bad day. I know there is a man out there who would love to be that person for me, it’s just weeding out all the jerks before I find him.

If you are dating you really should read this:

I joined this website called MyYearbook, great site, it’s fun and I get to do what I do best; flirt and be social. Yes I am guilty of being a bit flirtatious at times, not so much when I am in a relationship but I’m single so it’s safe to say I am very flirty. I mean nothing by my flirts, it’s all in good fun and most every one who knows me well knows that I am not one to go for a one night stand or do much more than flirt. Now back in the day, well that’s a completely different story, I am now in love with myself and know that a one night stand is going to do nothing but destroy my self esteem that I have worked way too hard to build up.

So this website, MyYearbook.com is pretty neat and fun, however, it is the most drama filled site I have ever seen. I can’t believe how catty some of the females are on there and as much as I would love to say that the men on there are great, in all honesty some of them are only on there looking for a one night stand. Most online men are there for flirting and one night stands, now men don’t take offense there are many online men out there who are caring and sweet individuals but the majority of them have ruined it for those who are caring and sweet.

I have watched on this site as girls fight over who their “number one” man is and it’s forbidden to send stickers to them flirting because after all they are number one on their list which means they are in a relationship, even if they are seriously nothing more than just “top friends” on a website. I have debated on removing my account from this website because the drama is intense, but there are some people on there I have formed friendships with who I would not be able to communicate with otherwise, because I am not giving them my phone number or email address to gain contact to my personal life. Some of them do read this blog, some do read my other blog but hey what I put out on my websites are strictly what I want everyone to know, I don’t tell all the “behind the scenes” information.

Anyways, I have to giggle as I watch grown woman fight over a man and act as if they are in high school again. I feel like my every move on that website is watched because of some of the woman on there, but I figure if they want to watch me I should feel special and loved. After all it simply means they are jealous, right!?