A two way conversation is vitally important in any relationship, whether it be a parent with child, a sibling with sibling or a husband and wife. You see when a woman is going on a rampage and rambling off about something that quite obviously has upset her and she is about near in tears over it, a simple silent nod doesn’t cut it. She wants to hear you say well it will be okay, or I understand how you feel but maybe if you do this about it or something, anything except a freaking NOD of the head and a blank stare. That is about enough to make her forget what she was upset about and redirect that frustration onto you.
Okay I get it, men and woman do think differently. Woman can be much more emotional and men are just to the point, no emotions behind it. Do not get me wrong, I am not stereotyping ALL men and woman but for the most part that statement is very true. I am not an extremely emotional female, however, there are some topics of discussion that really get me going and make me very upset. When I get this upset I really need a two way conversation, I either need someone more strong willed than me to set my mind at ease or I need someone to be compassionate about the topic with me.
The problem without two way conversations is that it leaves the party speaking to a silent pole upset, sad and feeling very lonely.