Being passionate is a spectacular feeling, when you know in your heart that your life is the best it ever could be. You are found being extremely happy and satisfied in all areas of life and because of this your children are amazingly bright & wonderful. Well what happens when that passion dies out and you are faced with a reality you had hoped not to face again?
What if your hopes of something never came through? It seems life has proved to you that the world you thought could change, hasn’t. Life has proven that no matter how passionate you are about something that you can’t expect a person to change for you. No matter what you hope and dream for, life is what you make of it.
It’s not selfish to want to be the best you possible and in turn know that in your heart your children will only benefit from you being at your best. It’s true, when two parents are at their best, their children blossom! I have seen this with my own two eyes in my daughter but have only seen a glimpse of this with my sons.
Do you know how sad it can be when the world you live in makes it easy to give up? It makes you look like you gave up and then you bow down to what others want you to do and how to live by their standards when reality hits you smack in the face and you realize that the decisions you made the first time were real, heart felt, honest, better for your family decisions. Now you are faced with wondering what happened to the passion you once held? What happened to that person who was so incredibly happy that everyone wanted to be around you?
I tell you … that person can get lost … lost in a complicated life, but it only gets lost if you allow it to. Remember life isn’t easy, it’s full of tough decisions that take work to move forward with. I once was strong, I am now weak but I will be strong again you just wait and see.