You know I have always avoided confrontation and apparently my last blog post hit a nerve for many people and for that I am truly sorry they allowed a powerful opinion article bother their day. This is the Internet and I love everyone for who they are. We all have people in our lives who hurt us, who betray us, or someone who we feel just doesn’t get it. That is our right, our life and our opinion, whether it be true or false.
I am a very stubborn person who has had a lot of ups and downs like anyone else and never would I feel I am better than someone else. I mean seriously, look at me; I am dating my ex husband of whom I felt I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life with. I even went so far as to really make myself believe that he wasn’t the one for me. I obviously was awoken to my real feelings the day he came to me to talk to me. That’s what life is about, opening up communication to others.
I haven’t ever really been good at listening, truly listening to a person it is a skill I have been working on. My blogs are my outlet, but never are they so personal that I would plain out attack a person publicly. So let it be known that my feelings, are my feelings and no where did I say I was perfect. I love my family, I love my friends but when times get down and you start talking to others who are having similar issues you blog about it, it’s the blogger in me.
I have finally grown a back bone, I am forever talking about that and although I am still working on finding a good way to communicate my thoughts in words, writing has always been my strong point. Seriously, I used to get mad at my mother when I was young and she knew “a book” would be on it’s way. Therefore I have to wonder why some people would be shocked when I refer to a situation in my life on my blog for the world to read without noting any name in particular. I mean you have no clue who I am talking about half the time when I run a vent, unless you are my close friend or one of my close family members and in that case you can fully understand my frustrations. The people I have decided to not involve in my life are people who I barely talk to anyways, so really what harm does that do?
It’s silly overall, but I wanted to write a public notice because some people took my last post as a personal bash and that was not my intentions, for that I am truly sorry but I am not sorry I wrote the article, besides it isn’t the first of it’s kind. Take a look at Happily Blended, there are a ton of articles similar to my August 29th article on here. I am simply speaking what’s on my mind based on real life situations, thoughts that cross my mind or random dreams I have. We are all entitled to our opinions and freedom of speech that is what the good ol’ United States of America is about … whatever happened to that belief?